Contrary to what pop culture and the entertainment industry will lead us to believe, it is quite impossible to just approach a random stranger for casual sex without some form of prior interaction. Prior interaction here doesn’t mean that you’ll have to be familiar with the person or speak to them for hours on end before broaching the real intent behind your interest, it just so happens that people find it off putting to be blatantly asked for sex by total strangers. The first step to approaching a girl for sex, stop being a stranger. You see a girl at a social event, a club or while you’re walking down the street and she interests you, the first thing to do is invent an avenue to introduce yourself, don’t spend hours staring and fantasizing, don’t waste time, do it. It doesn’t matter if you’ll be bold about it and walk straight to her or if you’ll be subtle and frame it as a chance event. Introduce yourself, let her know who you are and try to get details about her too. If she is an active participant in the conversation then you might be heading somewhere. For the current generation, terms like Friends with benefits and casual hookups are normal. As they focus on their career, they don’t want to be involved in a relationship before making a name for themselves. However, they also have bodily urges that need to be satisfied. This is where casual sex comes in, where a man and woman have sex purely for bodily pleasure without any attachments. So below are the steps that you can use to Approach a girl for casual sex. Pay her compliments. Don’t be excessive or overly suggestive so that you come across as creepy, and never (not even on the threat of death) make generalized compliments, say something that lets her know you’ve been paying a measure of attention to her, compliment her dress and how it matches her eyes, say something genuine and do it in the most natural way possible. Try not to stutter the compliments, look at her when you say it and smile. It goes a long way. Make yourself as attractive as possible without being ridiculous. When talking about yourself say things that sound appealing to the female mind, don’t bring up awkward memories from when you were younger unless it is strictly necessary, don’t wash with compliments, don’t sound self deprecating. You’re a guy after something and your goal is to make what you want you in return. Are we clear? Don’t flatter your biceps or your genitals or your looks or do any other thing along those lines. Try to come across as a nice young man interested in a nice young woman. Inject sexual innuendos into the conversation. All your efforts will be for naught if she doesn’t know you “want” her. Find a way to bring sexual tension to your interaction. Maybe say something that references sex, nice long legs? Say it, you don’t have anything to lose if she isn’t interested. You, however, have a lot to lose if you let an interested bed partner go home alone. So be sexual, not blatantly but enough for her to know you mean business, tell raunchy jokes if that’s what it takes, but put it on the table and gauge her reaction to it, you must know if there’s sex to be had or not. Invite her to a private place. If she’s still receptive after your blundering through all the advice given above, then invite her to someplace private, your place, your car, the restroom, a hotel? It doesn’t matter, invite her somewhere or invite yourself to her place and go with the flow, be persuasive in your invitation, don’t just settle for “no” as the first response, maybe “how ’bout we head back to my place for a drink”, or ” more fun activities”. This is where it all heads to, don’t ask her too early and if she says no, then try again after a bit of time with a leading question like, “are you sure…” or ” I’m sure it would be….” Be like a car salesman; quietly persuasive and logical. Odds are you get the girl. And if you don’t there are other girls to be had, just try again and be better at it this time.
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